Friday’s Fave Five – Five Things I Am Thankful For

Today I am joining Friday’s Fave Five again, though it has not been an easy week. My mother-in-law passed away on Monday, and today was her funeral. 

Below is the beautiful condolence bouquet. My husband received it from his colleagues

When I look back, there are a few blessings that stand out.

1. Good conversations with my husband
This week my husband and I talked a lot. About everything that was happening, about how to find our way through it, and about the fact that grief can be complicated. Those conversations were precious. They helped us stay close to each other in a difficult week.

2. My sister’s faithful care
All through these weeks, my sister kept sending messages, voice notes and little signs of care. I felt so thankful for that steady attention.

3. Coffee with a dear friend
I had coffee with a friend who has known me for many years and knows something of our family history. It was good to sit with her in her garden, among the flowers, and speak freely for a while.

In this collage: my diamondpainting (wildflowers), morning coffeer, the stone/rock we received from te hospice, fries on the table, and the farewell at the open grave.

4. Sunshine on the day of the funeral
The evening before, and during the night, there had been thunder and heavy rain. But today, on the day of the funeral, the weather was bright and sunny. It was very hot, but I was so thankful there was no thunderstorm.

5. Diamond painting
I am thankful for my diamond painting. It helps me relax and gives my hands something to do when my mind is tired. Instead of staring ahead and getting stuck in difficult memories, I can let the good memories come too. The dark and the light, side by side.

A little extra blessing: ordering fries from the cafeteria. No cooking, no meal planning, just something simple and easy. On a week like this, that felt like a gift too.

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And a little clip of last night’s thunderstorm to end with. KNMI recorded more than 188,000 lightning discharges, so it really was an exceptional storm. I don’t think I’ve ever seen so many flashes behind the clouds... heavy, but spectacular.

Now I’m curious: what were the bright spots in your week?
I’d love to hear a few happy things. 😊

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